Are you an adoptive parent? Have you ever had some kinds of depression after having the kid in your home?
Don’t be sad and ashamed to admit it. It’s normal.
Don’t you know that some of the non-adoptive parents also get the blues, called a post-partum depression?
Also, there are other adoptive parents who experience the same thing [nytimes.com]. You’re not the only one. All you need is more understanding of what’s going on then get all the help you need.
The best way to get help is by expressing what you feel to others or to experts. Let it all out, maybe someone with another perception can lead you to a better feeling.
All parents should unite and step together, hand in hand, along the parenting paths. Adoptive or not, we should never be lack of love to grant to our children. Love is the best thing they can get from us, their parents.