Insparenting

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Happy Father’s Day…again!

1. When you are lied to? - I’d ask for explanation and won’t easily trust that person anymore.

2. When you make a mistake? - Ask for apology and put in mind that I should not repeat the same mistake.

3. When you embarrass yourself in public? - If possible, I’d run away as far as I could :), or better, I do something to cover it up.

4. When you see someone make a fool of themselves? - Try to warn the person and distract people’s attention at something else.

5. When you realize you have hurt someone (emotionally)? - I feel sad about it and will try to make it better then apologize.

I always loved it to see sparkles in my father’s eyes whenever he was looking at my mother.

Love you, Dad…always…

Here are 13 phrases/words my husband and I use to keep our marriage a beautiful one (which make us happy parents for our kids ;))

• Me to him: “Oh honey, you look cute today…” *said this when he wore his very old pajama…he didn’t actually look so cute but since he loved that pajama so much, I wanted to make him happy, a white lie, it was!*
• Me to him: “Great breakfast!” *Olivia my dear almost said something but I shut her mouth with my hand…it was actually uneatable but hey I didn’t want to stop him from trying all his might to prepare breakfast!*
• Him to me: “I love you but…please wear that red gown instead, you look more gorgeous in it than this one.” *He said it with his hands holding me…well, ok, he wanted to say that I looked ugly in what I wore but in a way I was happy enough knowing that he paid attention to what I wore.*
• Me to him: “Hey, guess what, this weekend, you don’t have to do the laundry.” *He was sooo happy. To be honest, I just didn’t want him to ruin my new white shirt!*
• Him to me: “Dear, you know what…you can hang out with your friends tomorrow night. My mom will take care of the kids.” *I knew there was something…next I found out that he went out with his old buddies that I didn’t really like. He thought if I was happy, I wouldn’t be mad knowing that fact. Well, he was right. :)*
• Him to me: “Who was the man who called you this morning?” *I hate it when men are being possessive to their wife or lover but frankly speaking, being jealous at once in a while makes you know that you are loved.*
• Me to him: “Do you love me?” he nodded, “Good. So let’s not have more children.” *Two kids, for me, are enough. Happy to have them. And, I know he has the same idea.*
• Me to him: “Honey, I’m going out for grocery shopping. I’m taking the kids with me.” *I know he loved it. On weekends, he always enjoys afternoon sleeping and he prefers to do it in peace and quiet. That mean, no kid’s yelling.*
• Him to me: “I’ve just got this discount voucher…do you want it?” *He’s a man who knows how to please a woman.*
• Him to me: “I love you, and your family. Especially your mom.” *I’m the closest one to Mom.*
• Me to him: “Come and kiss me now.” *Every man loves it, I bet.*
• Me to him: “You’re the greatest, sexiest, nicest man that I’ve ever known in my whole life.” *It’s not a lie, I swear to you.*
• Him to me: “You’re the sunshine of my life.” *Oh well, he stole that phrase from Stevie Wonder’s song but it sounded soooo good in my ears. Don’t care if he lied or not. I tend to believe that he didn’t and that made me smile.*

More TTs…

Communication is one of some important elements in a marriage–besides commitment, faithfulness, and intimacy.

Without good communication, no relationship can work.

Have you watched The Break-Up? What do you think about that movie?

My opinion, the problem lies between them is simply bad communication. Brooke (Jennifer Anniston) wishes Gary (Vince Vaughn) to know everything she wants without her saying anything. Well, he’s not a psychic. And, Gary wishes her to understand his needs but his way to make her do is not the best one.

Both are yelling. Both never sit down and talk.

Well, that’s not the way to solve any problems in any relationship.

So, if you plan to have a beautiful long-lasting marriage, please, take all the time you need to sit down, and talk. Never leave the room before it’s done. And, never say bad things about your spouse, it might ruin the nice conversation. Hold back your anger, your emotion. Think before saying anything.

Remember, it takes two to tango.

Are there people in your family celebrating their birthdays this week? How do you celebrate the special day? Hope you all enjoy it..

Now I’d like to share these people’s birthdays too… Well, it’s about wives writing about their hubbies’ birthdays, and one man who’s writing about his wife’s.

The first is Raggedy’s dearest hubby who’s having his 53rd birthday last Wednesday. Don’t miss the sweet poem she wrote in her blog…

The next one is J, Chelle’s husband, who celebrated his 30th birthday yesterday. Chelle is now 27 weeks pregnant and also a mom of a cute toddler girl, Becca :). What a perfect world for them! Curious about what these two ladies give to their man? Cutieee…

And the last one, which you must not overlook, is a nice post written by a man to his loving wife on her 35th birthday. Guess what she got already from him?

Happy birthday to you all, guys… And have a wonderful birthday week!